Brown and Unbothered Podcast

Hosted by Sharan Bilan & Priya Tahim

Two brown girls, two unhinged opinions, and zero interest in settling for the bare minimum. Welcome to Brown & Unbothered, where we talk relationships, healing, and all the toxic cycles we finally decided to unsubscribe from.

Unfiltered girl talk.
Therapy-meets-chaos energy.
And the soft-but-savage glow-up era you didn’t know you needed.

If it’s messy, we’re naming it.
If it’s healing, we’re hyping it.
If it’s toxic, we’re blocking it.

Grab your chai, your boundaries, and your delulu bestie.
Sharan & Priya are here to keep it brown, bold, and beautifully unbothered. 

Episodes

We're Back!!

Apr 13, 2026

Apr 13, 2026

27 min

Season 3, Episode 1 🎙️
Q1 recap but make it brown & unbothered .We’re talking growth, lessons, soft resets, and the moments that humbled us real quick.
Not everything went to plan…but we did what we do best: adapt, evolve, and keep it moving.
New season, same vibes, more voices and just a little wiser (and a little more unbothered) 

Mar 16, 2026

35 min


This episode of Brown & Unbothered gets a little chaotic in the best way. We’re asking the unhinged questions everyone thinks about but rarely says out loud. From petty reasons we’ve ended things to the wildest dating red flags we ignored because someone was cute, nothing is off limits.
We talk about situationships that lasted way too long, the icks that instantly changed our feelings, and those delusional moments where we convinced ourselves someone was “different.” We also dive into friendship tea, toxic dating habits we secretly enjoy, and the messy truths about modern dating.
It’s honest, a little unfiltered, and definitely relatable. If you’ve ever ignored a red flag, double-texted when you knew better, or gone back to someone you absolutely shouldn’t have, this episode will feel a little too familiar. Brown & Unbothered is keeping it real, laughing at the chaos, and reminding you that sometimes the best thing you can be is completely unbothered.
 
 
 

Mar 9, 2026

30 min

This week, we’re unpacking the messy middle: cheaters, monkey branching, and the emotional baggage we pretend we don’t carry.
We get real about what cheating actually is, not just physical, but emotional. From secret DMs to “it’s just a friend” energy, we talk about why people cheat and what it really says about them (hint: it’s rarely about you).
Then we swing into monkey branching, lining someone up before letting go of the current relationship. Is it fear of being alone? Ego? Attachment wounds? We break down the psychology behind needing a backup plan and why that pattern always catches up.
And of course, we open the suitcase on emotional baggage. How past heartbreak, trauma, and unresolved wounds sneak into new relationships and how to heal without bleeding on someone who didn’t cut you.
This episode is honest, a little spicy, and grounded in mental health facts. Because around here, we don’t ignore red flags, we analyze them and keep it moving.
Tune in for truth, growth, and a reminder: we’re not bitter… we’re just Brown & Unbothered.

Mar 2, 2026

28 min


Vibe: Sassy, healing, groundedWhat we’re unpacking:
Why rejection isn’t personal, it’s protective
How redirection saves you from situations you would’ve outgrown anyway
Letting go without spiraling (yes, it’s possible)
Choosing self-worth over chasing closure
When we reframe rejection, we reduce emotional distress and increase resilience, aka peace over panic.
If it missed you, it wasn’t meant to meet you.Stay brown. Stay unbothered. 💅🏽
Now streaming on Brown & Unbothered.
 
 
 

Feb 23, 2026

24 min

Grief doesn’t make you weak.It makes you human.Some days you cry. Some days you laugh.Most days? You do both and still show up.
Being unbothered isn’t about not feeling.It’s about feeling everything and choosing yourself anyway.
✨ Healing isn’t linear.✨ Grief can coexist with joy.✨ You’re allowed to rest and still rise.

Feb 2, 2026

34 min

Female friendships, travel stories, and all the dynamics that come with being grown, opinionated, and outside together.From ride-or-dies to “this trip changed our relationship,” we’re talking laughs, lessons, side-eyes, and the unspoken rules of sisterhood.Because being Brown & Unbothered means loving your people and knowing when to set boundaries, passport in one hand, peace in the other.

Jan 26, 2026

32 min

Season 2 starts HOT ✨ Slow burn or instant chemistry?We’re talking make-out moments, butterflies vs peace, and why attraction doesn’t always show up loud but it always shows up real. Brown & Unbothered in every way 

Jan 12, 2026

35 min

EPISODE 7 🎙️✨
New Year goals sound cute… until the pressure hits.
In this episode of Brown and Unbothered, we’re breaking down:
🎯 New Year goals vs. lifestyle changes (spoiler: one actually sticks)
🔁 why habits > resolutions
🧠 the mental health pressure of “reinventing yourself” every January
🪞 redefining who you are without erasing who you’ve been
🌱 choosing progress, not perfection
Because you don’t need a new personality by January 1st.You need sustainable habits, self-compassion, and a lifestyle that actually fits your real life.
✨ No dramatic rebrands.✨ No hustle shame.✨ No pretending you’re behind.
Just honest conversations about growth that lasts longer than February.
🎧 Tune in and let’s redefine the New Year on our terms.
#BrownAndUnbothered #Episode7 #NewYearPressure #LifestyleChanges #HabitsOverGoals #MentalHealthTalk #UnlearningTheHustle #SoftButStrong #UnbotheredEnergy

Jan 5, 2026

36 min

Brown and Unbothered is back — and we’re starting the year with a REAL one.
🎙️ Episode 1 of 2026:We’re unpacking toxic masculinity and how it shows up in:
💔 dating & relationships
🧠 emotional unavailability
👶🏽 raising boys with emotional intelligence (not just “be a man”)
🌱 healing cycles instead of repeating them
🗣️ accountability, growth, and doing better for ALL of us
This isn’t man-bashing.This is calling things in, not calling people out.Because unlearning toxic patterns is part of the glow-up.
✨ Less ego.✨ More emotional safety.✨ Healthier love.✨ Better futures.
🎧 Tap in. Reflect with us. Get a little uncomfortable (that’s where growth lives).
Brown and Unbothered 2026 energy: healed, honest, and still unbothered.
#BrownAndUnbothered #ToxicMasculinity #DatingIn2026 #RaisingBoys #EmotionalIntelligence #Unlearning #HealingConversations #PodcastDrop #NewYearNewCycles

Dec 29, 2025

31 min

In the final Brown & Unbothered episode of 2025, Sharan and Priya sit down to answer intentional reflection questions and unpack the year that was: the growth, the heartbreaks, the glow-ups, and the lessons that changed them.
Together, they reflect on dating, relationships, career moves, friendships, boundaries, healing, and the moments that pushed them out of their comfort zones. They talk honestly about what they’re proud of, what they’re releasing, and how 2025 reshaped the way they show up for themselves and each other.
This episode is part reflection, part real talk, part therapy-adjacent girlhood. A space to process the wins and the wounds before stepping into a new year. If you’re closing out 2025 feeling reflective, grateful, tender, or ready for a reset, this conversation will feel like a deep exhale.
✨ Here’s to lessons learned, boundaries strengthened, and entering 2026 grounded, intentional, and still very unbothered.

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